There’s something so utterly delicious about discovering a new quaint little coffee shop that carries the same feel as something out of painting. You know the kind – hidden from the masses, only known to the locals that reside in the area; something that you probably come across while trying to find something else - just a charming little place that embodies something special. Well, The Daily Deli in Tamboerskloof is it!
Accompanying a friend who stumbled across it one day, we made our way there. It was enchanting to say the least – a handful of two seaters spread out along the sidewalk with a few umbrellas; nothing extravagant or extreme - simplicity at its best. We sat ourselves down, got some menus and absorbed it all in. The street itself is made up of gorgeous Victorian houses with adorable little porches leading onto the street. With prominent views of Lions Head, it makes for the perfect place to sit back and chill out, while causally sipping on a good cup of java.
But there was something else that stood out about this place. It could’ve been the all-round relaxed vibe of the locals enjoying their coffee, or, perhaps it was the delectable guy sitting alone at a table, reading his book quietly to himself. With eyes that could melt solid steal and just a general look of absolute yum, I was hooked. That was it. My chair was swiftly positioned to have him in full view at all times, and I could barely make conversation without loosing my breath every time he looked up.
However, not being one to generally make the first move, I remained frozen at my table praying that he just might. When it was finally time for us to leave, I reluctantly got up and started walking to my car, passing him along the way. I gave one final ‘flirtatious’ smile and continued walking – feeling his stare on my back. And while driving home, I could’ve kicked myself at not having the confidence to go up to him, and at the very least given him my name. But, I have a feeling we may cross paths once again. Why you ask? Because I intend on paying that delicious little coffee shop, with its many regulars, a lot more visits in the future.
Great column, Jess. I love the Daily Deli, too.
ReplyDeleteBut what I want to comment on is why South African girls don't go up to guys...I remember living in Montreal how awesome it was when women (cause they were women) would come up to us and ask us out, or flirt with us. It was such a compliment!
I think it has to do with gender relations, and SA women still thinking they must not be too forward, too active or risk being perceived as "sluts". While I'm all in to the chase and chivalry, I think the dance can go both ways. And sometimes it's a bit much to always be taking the risk. All the power then rests with the woman. Thoughts, women?
Stu, for me it is as simple as a lack of confidence in that area. I know a lot of really confident ladies that do approach guys without a second thought! South Africa, I have found, is a lot more conservative compared to a lot of oversea's places, so I do get what your saying - the 'do not be too forward' kind of thinking has been instilled in us, however I do see a great change happening as the generations move on :)
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